The foremost thing which someone craves for throughout his/her entire life is a blend of praise, admiration, adulation and appreciation. It’s something which gives someone immense pleasure, though momentarily, but worth a million dollar. Practically, it’s the basic key of achieving success through the BACKGATE, be it any sort of fight viz. luring a girl, being sycophant to your boss or a hopeless interview, no matter how bare the chances of success are.
For instance, in case of luring a girl, you just need to admire her aesthetics and her attributes at the same time. If a boy is skilled at that, no power can restrict him from being a “Playboy”. Howsoever crucial the situation is, you will always be on the winning side if you know this skill. But in such scenario, there is never any room for truthfulness, honesty, veraciousness and faith. That’s something really weird about it because although it takes your soul on cloud 9 but the centre of such pleasure lies within an enormous circle inscribing a blend of elements like lie, conspiracy, hatred, sycophancy and betrayal. So, why the hell we let this fateful circle encircle our brain cells and paralyze them forever? Is this sort of momentarily pleasure justified? Oh hell no dear! Moreover, this is a proven fact that if you get to know about the invalidity of someone’s admiration for you, it really hurts big time. On the contrary, if someone’s admiration is testified, it boosts up the feeling of such admiration by many folds. That’s a practical truth/hardship of life.
So, what’s the harm in being “Yourself” in front of others? Though it might become a hurdle to your aspirations but there do lay tremendous long term benefits. There is a well proven fact of life that a person projects his/her real traits only to himself/herself .For the rest, its always the fake one with varying degrees depending upon the intimacy levels. And it’s practically impossible to alter this phenomenon because of the very human nature termed “Insecurity”. The only thing which can be done to salvage your soul from such nasty “Entanglement” of this fake world is to be honest to yourself and to others, who are worth trusting, as everybody is surrounded by those filthy Rats who will eventually force you to believe that “Honesty is a fucking policy” through their asocial luring acts.
So, it should be the immense treasure of pleasure we should crave for rather than getting be fooled with mere specimens of undue pleasure coated with elements of lies and dishonesty.
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Nice write up. I respect your point of view. But sometimes you just have to redefine what "fake" is. For example, almost every time I go to receive my girlfriend from Heidelberg railway station, I buy a rose which is expensive for me in this part of the world, knowing fully well that it won't last for more than a week. Hell, even the relationship might not last for more than a year. But as human beings, it gives us immense pleasure to see our loved ones truly happy and so, however meaningless it is, you just do it, with no selfish intentions what-so-ever. Though it's definitely not what is called "being yourself", but it does more good than harm, so why not?
ReplyDeleteAnd this is not just a one way story. There are stuffs which women also do for men just to make them happy, however boring they consider it to be. I do not have a specific example in mind at the moment, but there are many. Just ask yourself this question and you'll know.
I totally agree with your point and I do respect your feelings.But,here what I am trying to highlight is something which is prevailing a lot these days, mostly in "Fake" relationships.And, as far as "Being Yourself" is concerned, I adamantly say that no one acts exactly the same he/she acts with himself/herself.There always exist slight alterations in everyone's behaviour.
Deletei m waiting for sweet sixteen...:)
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